Permission Not Required: Why Waiting to Be “Ready” is Holding You Back

Kamy Charles

4/22/20251 min read

a green light shining brightly colored in the background
a green light shining brightly colored in the background

There’s a mindset that holds too many talented professionals back. It whispers:

“Wait until you’re more qualified.” “Wait until someone gives you the green light.” “Wait until you have it all figured out.”

But here’s the hard truth: waiting for permission often means waiting forever.

In today’s competitive job market, career growth doesn’t always come with a formal invite. The most successful professionals aren’t always the ones with the loudest supporters or most impressive résumés—they’re the ones who choose to act anyway.

You Don’t Need a Title to Lead

Leadership starts with mindset, not job description. Don’t wait until someone labels you a leader to act like one. Own your space, offer solutions, support your team, and move with intention.

If you’ve been showing up, growing, and grinding—you’ve already been leading.

Stop Looking for External Validation

Whether it’s career pivots, promotions, or starting your own thing, seeking constant external validation can keep you stuck. Your confidence doesn’t need to be outsourced.

Validate yourself through your progress. Through your resilience. Through the fact that you’re still here, showing up.

Start Where You Are

You don’t need every certification, every piece of praise, or every checkbox completed to begin.

Start applying. Start asking for what you need. Start building what you wish existed.

Because when you move without waiting, the world begins to respond.

Final Thought

The next version of you—the one thriving, fulfilled, and empowered—is not waiting for permission. It’s waiting for action.

You don’t need a green light. You ARE the green light.