Joy as Resistance: The Science Behind Celebration
Why LGBTQ+ Joy Is Powerful, Necessary, and Healing
Kamy Charles
6/6/20251 min read


The Myth: Joy Is a Distraction
In many workplaces and professional circles, joy is misunderstood.
It’s labeled as unserious. Unproductive. Extra.
But for LGBTQ+ folks navigating systems not built with them in mind—joy is medicine.
In fact, according to psychologists, joyful moments can:
Interrupt cycles of chronic stress
Regulate the nervous system
Rewire the brain toward safety and possibility
That’s not fluff. That’s biology.
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The Reality: Celebration Is a Survival Strategy
For historically marginalized communities, joy is not an afterthought—it’s often an antidote.
💬 Dr. Thema Bryant says:
> “It is not a betrayal of your pain to feel joy. It’s a reclaiming of your life.”
When you laugh freely at lunch…
When you show up fully in color, culture, or softness…
When you celebrate without apology…
You create space for healing. Not just for yourself—but for others silently watching.
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3 Ways to Practice Joy as a Wellness Tool
1. Make Joy Part of Your Routine—not Just the Weekend
Midday music break
Five-minute celebration when you complete a task
Wearing something that makes you feel radiant
These aren’t distractions. They’re realignment.
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2. Host Your Own Micro-Pride
Whether your workplace celebrates Pride or not, you can:
Start a daily affirmation Slack thread
Add “joy breaks” to your calendar
Bring queer art or culture into your workspace
Visibility matters—even in small, sacred ways.
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3. Celebrate Yourself Loudly and Privately
Reflect on how far you’ve come
Journal moments of power and peace
Toast your milestones—big or small
You’re not waiting for the world to catch up. You’re honoring your pace.
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Final Thought: You Deserve to Feel Good
Joy isn’t “extra.” It’s essential.
Because when you feel safe enough to celebrate—you’re doing something radical:
You’re choosing to thrive.
And that? That’s resistance.